If you have spent any time experimenting with BDSM, you will encounter the concept of the “hard limit”. You likely also heard about its close relative the “soft limit”. While they are both refer to limitations placed on the activities … continue reading “Hard Limits and Soft Limits”
Boner High: The effects in perception and judgment due to sexual arousal. This can be expressed positively and negatively. (For My non-English readers who aren’t aware, “boner” is a slang word for an erection.)
When someone is sexually aroused … continue reading “Mistress Tissa’s Lexicon: Boner High”
Scene Director: This is the person who attempts to tell the Dominant how to run the show. They may tell Her/Him how to dress, how they should behave, what emotions to feel, what their motivation is, how and when … continue reading “Mistress Tissa’s Lexicon: Scene Director”