I came across this entry “How To Tell The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants” at BDSMTrainingAcademy.com, which includes this graphic:
While the information itself is terrific, the presentation of it as a dichotomy of “fake” versus … continue reading ““Fake” versus “Real” Dominants”
While they are now sadly “unavailable” they were once for sale. And people bought them.
I actually got one of these in with something I bought, like a free gift.
I can tell you I would never … continue reading “Please Buy This: These Are Supposed To Go In Your Ass”
I always have a pretty strong suspicion that someone doesn’t understand how to properly clean when they say something like,
“I always sterilize my furniture.”Someone
…because you can’t sterilize furniture.
You should know this stuff before you ever accept … continue reading “Cleaning: Know What You’re Doing”
Have an injury, chronic health condition, and/or (dis)ability?
I have multiple clients in your position & am adept at creating scenes that meet you where you’re at.
(My dungeon isn’t accessible but my mind is! I’ll do everything I can … continue reading “Do You Have A Health Condition?”
A friend recently shared this article with me:
I appreciate when people provide a platform for those of us in the sex work community to educate others about the reality of our work. Much of what we do is … continue reading “Response to Vice’s “I Give Disabled People Orgasms For a Living””
Between pleasure and pain: a pilot study on the biological mechanisms associated with BDSM interactions in dominants and submissives
This research is the first study of some of the biological mechanisms of BDSM. It was conducted by the University of … continue reading “Study: Between Pleasure And Pain”
Do you feel unsure about your sexuality, specifically your kinks? Have you been concerned whether what you enjoy is “good” or if it’s “bad”? Have you asked yourself, “Is it OK that I’m doing this?” or “Is there something wrong … continue reading “How Do I Know If My Kink Is Good Or Bad? And What Can I Do About It?”