Wank Maid: My term for women/femmes who are expected to be at the beck and call of men/butches and their hard-ons. It involves a presumption that a woman/femme’s job — whether she’s Dominant, submissive, top, bottom, switch, vanilla, kinky — is to attend to men’s/butch’s sexual needs as needed. I also use “Cock Attendant“.
Some people LIKE being wank maids/cock attendants, so it isn’t inherently pejorative.