I thought I’d explain how my longer sessions work, in greater detail than is elsewhere on my site.
My in-person sessions begin at one-hour in length and go up to eight hours. I currently do not offer any more than an eight-hour session.
My six and eight-hour sessions both include a two-hour break for us to dine together. Meaning, a six-hour session is four hours of play and a two-hour meal break, and an eight-hour session is six hours of play and a two-hour meal break. In both instances, you will graciously cover the costs of our meal and any necessary transportation to and from the restaurant. Accounting for any need you may have, I usually choose the restaurant, but am open to your recommendations. The only criterion I have is that it suitably accommodates a meatless diet.
Dining with me can range from causal to a light M/s dynamic. This means we can simply take a break from play and enjoy a meal and each other’s company without any kinky elements present or we can include power exchange and some play. What kind of play is something you and I will negotiate, but is generally on the lighter side and will certainly not be something that will risk arrest or being removed from the premises.
Ordering in and dining my home is possible but at my discretion. Meal costs are still covered by you and the break is still two hours. If you would prefer this please ask for this option when requesting time with me and I will let you know if I will allow it.
For those who would like six or eight hours of play and do not wish to dine together, I recommend booking either two sessions on the same day or consecutive days. The reason you need to book two sessions is because I don’t conduct scenes that run longer than four hours in length. After four consecutive hours of play I need a break! If not to eat something, to just rest my mind and body for a little bit.
What would booking two sessions look like?
If, for example, you wanted six hours of play, you could book a four hour session and a two hour session; or two, 3-hour sessions. These sessions need to have at least a two-hour break between them.
If you wanted eight hours of play, you would need to book two, 4-hour sessions. This would need to occur on consecutive days as my style is such that 8 hours of play in one day is too taxing for me. (I recommend you staying overnight at a hotel between each session. There can be some fun possibilities with this option.)
At the conclusion of one session, we would part and have our break separately. After our break, I would welcome you back and we would continue with the second.
Each scene can be related to one another thematically or be completely different. When applicable, I will make my recommendations about the length of each and in what order they would best occur.
Tribute is for two scenes. There is no additional discount on top of the discount I already offer for multiple hours.
If you have questions, please feel free to send me an email.
2 thoughts on “Six- and Eight-Hour Sessions”
Your protocol makes perfect sense to me. I enjoy longer sessions, usually of 3 -4 hours that typically involve very heavy bondage. These scenes take a tremendous amount of planning and energy on the Domme’s part if they are to be done well. From my perspective as the sub, they are physically and occasionally emotionally exhausting. Even 4 hours is very difficult, but anything longer than 4 hours really starts to lose energy and chemistry.
When I have wanted longer sessions, I did exactly what you suggest, except I left in the evening after a 3 hour sessions, spent the night in a locked chastity device, and returned to the Domme the following morning for another 3 hour session. It was a wonderful experience that gave us both time to recharge the batteries physically while the chastity certainly kept my mind in the game. Sometimes, less really is more!
“These scenes take a tremendous amount of planning and energy on the Domme’s part if they are to be done well. From my perspective as the sub, they are physically and occasionally emotionally exhausting. Even 4 hours is very difficult, but anything longer than 4 hours really starts to lose energy and chemistry.”
Yes, this is true. I don’t think most subs really consider how taxing it is to hold an erotically-charged space for that long. Depending on the activity, I’m wiped out!
“I left in the evening after a 3 hour sessions, spent the night in a locked chastity device, and returned to the Domme the following morning for another 3 hour session. It was a wonderful experience that gave us both time to recharge the batteries physically while the chastity certainly kept my mind in the game.”
Yes, this is another great way to do it!